It's not ideal to do all this computation while the lock is held. We also want
to decode the failure *before* taking the lock, so we can store the failed scid
in the relevant outbound for retry in the next commit(s).
Once ChannelManager supports payment retries, it will make more sense for its
current send_payment method to be named send_payment_with_route because
retrying should be the default. Here we get a head start on this by making the
rename in outbound_payment, but not changing the public interface yet.
This allows us to move a lot of outbound payment logic out of ChannelManager
and into the new outbound_payment module, and helps avoid growing
ChannelManager when we add retry logic to it in upcoming work.
We want to move all outbound payment-related things to this new module, to help
break up ChannelManager so future payment retries work doesn't increase the
size of ChannelManager.