Unfortunately, we can't use the graph cache directly here as it doesn't
include all the information we need, since it only includes the minimal
amount of information needed for path finding.
Instead, we use a simple mutex guarded cache that evicts itself after a
certain interval. The default is set small enough that most users
shouldn't really notice. We also provide a way to disable the cache, and
also disable the cache in the itests.
Fixes https://github.com/lightningnetwork/lnd/issues/1232
