We now have ternary outcomes for `Builder.configure()` and
`Builder.start()`:
- Ok(Some(p)) means we were configured correctly, and can continue
with our work normally
- Ok(None) means that `lightningd` was invoked with `--help`, we
weren't configured (which is not an error since the `lightningd` just
implicitly told us to shut down) and user code should clean up and
exit as well
- Err(e) something went wrong, user code may report an error and exit.
Suggested-by: Rusty Russell <@rustyrussell>
Changelog-Added: plugins: `cln-grpc` first class GRPC interface for remotely controlling nodes over mTLS authentication
