This allows for explicit partial updates to channels (e.g. just change
fees, or just disable) without haveing to set the other fields.
This generalizes askrene-disable-channel, which is removed.
We also take the chance to use the proper BOLT 7 terms in the API:
- htlc_minimum_msat
- htlc_maximum_msat
- cltv_expiry_delta
- fee_base_msat
- fee_proportional_millionths
Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>