The integration with opentelemetry was sub-optimal: it was generating
jaeger-style traces, with short traceIds and we were considering the
entire lifetime as a single trace. This PR changes that to a trace for
startup and then a trace for any event that doesn't already have a
parent.
We also allow using the `CLN_TRACEPARENT` envvar to attach the startup
to a remote / external trace, potentially by whatever started the main
process. This is useful to see the startup trace in the wider context
of whatever tooling is built around it.
Changelog-Added: tracing: It is now possible to inject a parent for the startup trace by setting the `CLN_TRACEPARENT` envvar
